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Friday, September 30, 2011

Gay City

Gay City: While two New York town clerks resigned their jobs rather than violate their religious beliefs by signing marriage licenses for gay and lesbian couples, a third town clerk who also claims to have religious objections to gay marriage will hire a temporary deputy clerk to process marriage licenses in her office and keep her job in an upstate town.

“Most towns this size have a deputy in the budget,” Rose Marie Belforti, the Ledyard town clerk, said at a September 12 town meeting. “They have a line item for the salary of a deputy. I do not. I do all the work myself and I rarely hire a deputy.”

Belforti was quoted in the Citizen, a newspaper serving Cayuga County, which posted the article on auburnpub.com. The paper paraphrased Belforti saying that “the town paid for the services of deputy clerks since 2005 and the highest amount paid out was $200 in 2010.”

A September 27 story about Belforti in the New York Times presented her as a deeply religious person who has moral objections to homosexuality. This unusual hiring of temporary clerks just to handle marriage licenses suggests that Belforti is as concerned with keeping her job as she is with not processing licenses for gay and lesbian couples.

Belforti first informed the town board of her objections at its August 8 meeting, when she gave them a memo prepared by the Alliance Defense Fund, a right-wing legal group that now represents her.

As town clerk, Belforti takes the minutes at town meetings. Her description of her actions is generous.

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“Town Clerk Rose Marie Belforti gave a memo for Town Clerks who are opposed to processing same-sex marriage applications based on religious beliefs to the Town Board,” she wrote. “The memo was from the Alliance Defense Fund, a nonprofit organization that defends the right to hear and speak the truth through strategy, training, funding, and litigation. She informed the Town Board that she would be compromising her Christian moral conscience if she were to participate in the same-sex marriage licensing procedure.”

The memo was forwarded to Adam Van Buskirk, the Ledyard city attorney, who did not respond to emails and a call seeking comment.

A September 1 story in the Citizen indicated that by then the town had decided to hire temporary clerks to handle marriage licenses. The temporary clerks will work only when a marriage license has to be processed, so those seeking to wed are required to make appointments in advance.

“The clerk, until this matter is resolved, is not doing any marriage licenses,” the Citizen quoted Ledyard Councilman Jim Frisch saying. “At least, that’s what she has agreed to. In the interim, appointed deputy clerks will attend to all marriage licenses, but these deputy clerks are not there at all times.”

Ledyard appears to have gone to great lengths to accommodate Belforti. No other New York municipality or county is known to have made such an arrangement. Aside from the two town clerks who resigned, another who has religious objections to gay marriage stopped presiding at weddings, but still processes marriage licenses.

There are 932 town clerks in New York.

What is not clear is how the town will police Belforti to ensure that she does not issue marriage licenses to heterosexual couples who may come to the office without an appointment.

On August 30, Katie Carmichael and Deirdre DiBiaggio sought a marriage license at the Ledyard town clerk’s office, but were denied one by Belforti.

The couple were accompanied by Arthur J. Bellinzoni, a board member at People For the American Way Foundation (PFAW), a liberal advocacy group. Bellinzoni contacted PFAW on August 15 to alert the organization to Belforti’s position on marriage, according to Debbie Liu, PFAW’s general counsel. Liu said that Bellinzoni and the couple are friends and PFAW and the two women did not plan to challenge Belforti. PFAW is representing the couple.

Belforti may have committed a crime when she denied a license to the couple. It is a misdemeanor in New York for a public official to knowingly refrain “from performing a duty which is imposed upon him by law or is clearly inherent in the nature of his office.”

Jon E. Budelmann, the Cayuga County district attorney, is investigating, but any action hinges on finding that Belforti intended to deprive the couple of a benefit.

“I think they clearly have the right to the license and she had no right to refuse it,” Budelmann told Gay City News. “The issue is does it rise to the level of a crime.”

The matter appears to be at a stand off currently with the couple the pondering a lawsuit. Ledyard officials and Eric M. Schneiderman, the state attorney general, did not respond to requests for comment.

Lesbian

Lesbian: Thomas Lobel, who calls himself Tammy, is undergoing controversial hormone-blocking treatment in Berkeley, California, to stop him going through puberty as a boy.

His lesbian mothers, who adopted him aged two, said they had been criticised by friends and family, but insisted they had not forced their son to become a girl.

Debra Lobel and Pauline Moreno said one of the first things Thomas told them when he learnt sign language at three, because of a speech impediment, was, "I am a girl".Tammy, now 11, wears dresses and effectively lives as a girl.

Ms Moreno and Ms Lobel said their son, who they claimed was depressed at a younger age and threatened to


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The couple were married in 1990 by a rabbi, according to Ms Moreno's Facebook page, and have two older sons and grandchildren.

Ms Moreno said Thomas was shy and unhappy as a boy compared with his older, outgoing, athletic brothers.

He liked to read Wonder Woman comic books and play with dolls, and shunned baseball hats, preferring rhinestone hair accessories.

At seven, after Thomas threatened genital self-mutilation, therapists and psychiatrists diagnosed him with gender identity disorder.

A year later, his mothers allowed him to start the transition to becoming female by letting him wear bras and dresses.

"As soon as we let him put on a dress, his personality changed from a very sad kid who sat still, didn't do much of anything, to a very happy little girl who was thrilled to be alive," Ms Moreno told CNN.

This year Thomas started taking hormone-blocking drugs to postpone development of broad shoulders, deep voice and facial hair associated with puberty.

The diagnosis has been hard for Ms Moreno and Ms Lobel to accept, but they insisted their sexuality had nothing to do with it.

Ms Moreno said people had thought: "We're pushing her to do this. I'm a lesbian. My partner is a lesbian. That suddenly falls into the fold, 'Oh, you want her to be part of the lifestyle you guys live'."

The mothers said the hormone treatment would give Thomas time to decide whether to make the full transition to a female or go through puberty as a boy.

If he stopped taking the drugs, he would undergo male puberty at a later stage but his future fertility would not be affected.

To become an adult female, he could take female hormones, which would raise his voice, grow breasts and develop other feminine physical characteristics.

Ms Moreno and Ms Lobel have been married since 1990, when they were joined in a commitment ceremony by their rabbi.

San Francisco, right by Berkeley, is one of four cities in the United States with a hospital that has a program for transgender children.

The University of California San Francisco is home to the Center of Excellence for Transgender Health.

Children are seen at length by mental health professionals and then treated by pediatric endocrinologists.